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Cake day: December 10th, 2023

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  • you are asking for the impossible as they did not disclose what service do they use

    So you’re applying your own personal preference and beliefs. Saying “all the while this is a major breach of privacy, for both parties, and also of trust” is just you applying your preferences and beliefs to someone else’s personal decision.

    especially since with every response you sound more and more hostile.

    Do I? How so? You made a statement of fact (all the while this is a major breach of privacy, for both parties, and also of trust) about someone else’s choice and situation without any information to directly support it (you are asking for the impossible as they did not disclose what service do they use).

    Calling my questioning and pushback “hostile” seems like bad-jacketing to me. Maybe you’re getting defensive?





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    Not trans so forgive me if I use terms wrong but I believe transmascs use something called a binder on their chest to help with dysphoria. Some who don’t have help/helpful resources aren’t able to get an actual purpose made binder and find ways to make their own. I’m guessing duct tape is one solution used.

    On the transfer side, I’m entirely speculating here, but I’d guess it’s used similarly on the genitals to tuck/secure.






  • The article doesn’t describe a “biker problem” though. It specifically is talking about e-bikes and electric scooters.

    It follows actions by city officials from Paris to Honolulu to Hoboken, N.J., who are responding to residents angry about zippy vehicles with silent electric motors zooming down sidewalks and streets, often startling people, and occasionally hitting pedestrians.

    A manually powered bicycle or scooter is a lot different from an electric powered version capable of 20-30mph.

    Unfair treatment of one group versus another isn’t right and more cycle friendly infrastructure is needed but do you put both regular and e-bikes on that infrastructure to share it? Wouldn’t that lead to a lot of the same complaints that sharing with cars currently generates?

    I do think you’re right that it’s not all of any one of these groups (cyclists or motorists) that are problematic; we just notice the ones that are problematic the most. That said, cyclists are the minority which means they need “imperfect allies” of motorists to drive the change that leads to more, better cycling infrastructure.

    I don’t know the best way to go about that but ignoring the laws you’re required to follow isn’t a great way to go about it. I’d propose instead that working to change the rules for cyclists so that they aren’t bound by the “one way” and are allowed to legally proceed through a red as long as they can safely do so (no opposing traffic at the light/stop, they’ve stopped and confirmed it’s safe to proceed) and so on would be good. Then it might incentivize some motorists to ditch their car so they can get around easier as well as improve the experience for current cyclists.

    All of this is assuming the traffic laws in NYC work similar to where I am.