This was me like 3 years ago

I agree with you in general but fleshlights don’t really resemble a human any more than a dildo IMO.

Air pulse vibrators? I’m going to have to Google this haha 😄

My favourite episodes!

Congrats 👏

My advice would be to be kind to yourself and find what works for you. Being comfortable as an older ADHD person is about creating routines and accommodations that make things easier.