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  • I feel that for many people it simply comes more naturally.

    It’s a seamless scale and I just presume I’m missing some receptors others have socially so I have to compensate with templates.

    Yes, people all have to learn what is what in which society and what situation or environment. I think it’s a major difference in constant self reflection others dont have that much and how raw data arrives. For me its like I perceive things slighty differently than most and I have to first convert it to a alternative viewport to make it fit properly.

    Small differences can have a big impact on if something is awkward or normal.


  • Yes. So very yes. I’m over 40 now and have most social situations set as templates or template variations, but as a teenager and young adult it was hard to get the unspokenly expected responses and reactions right.

    These days I got it all covered so well that I have anyone and everyone so convinced that I am an extrovert that they actually laugh when I suggest I’m in truth an introvert and more.

    I still am overly self conscious too much, especially AFTER any interactions, reflecting way too much on how I might have come over, seemed, what was too much, not enough, etc.

    It’s a mask I can no longer turn off as it’s automated and its very exhausting.

    But it works… Based on my observations.







  • Food prices are obviously always a problem. Basic needs are always a problem if not accessible properly.

    Though even as a non American I do notice that there is clearly less loud bitching, fingerpointing and blame getting tossed around. At least not in a jerk agressive way.

    My guess is that it really is because those loud annoying people are trump supporters who now keep their mouths shut.




  • SunshineJogger@feddit.orgtoFuck Cars@lemmy.worldtaking up pavement
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    9 days ago

    That I can easily agree on.

    Though the reality is that the the e-scooter usage has not led to significantly less cars on the road. Instead they mostly replaced bikes, public transport and walking. Numbers vary from country to country and city to city of course so this is a generalized average.

    This means though that they are not making anything better but instead making it all worse because I do not recall ever having had this much trouble with badly parked bikes in the past, even in a big and bike heavy city like mine.

    So while the concept is great it fails because they don’t replace cars but instead just add another way of ruining public spaces ON TOP OF the fucking cars.


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    I regard it as a question of scale.

    Cars are problematic due to how people use them. That they are used senselessly, agressively, carelessly.

    Thats why there are so many rules and fines around cars. Fines that are nowhere near as strong as they should be.

    And those same attitude people driving cars in bad ways also ride scooters.

    I had a scooter with two on it plow through a tiny gap of elderly people at high speed just a few days ago.

    I had a easily 8 meter wide pedestrian crossing in front of my office vlocked in a full line of e-scooters dumped there as parking space blocking it just as thoroughly as if two cars had parked there.

    Now if I were to scale up the ratio of people using scooters to the same as cars then it would get very bad because they seem to think of e-scooters as being more free of rules.

    Sure, a good solution would be to replace cars fully and use roads for bikes and scooters. Best possibility.

    Sadly that’s not a thing and until then the people using scooters just as badly as car drivers are out there ruining that for everyone.








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    14 days ago

    I hate cars and I equally hate escooter turds who carelessly leave the damn thing wherever they hopped off. Middle of pavement, right in the dead center of a bus stop where they clearly jumped from scooter into the bus door.

    No, the little bit of space left getting fucked up by careless rental users is very close as bad as cars.