Reminds me of the lady with the morbidly obese caracal

First thing I did in most servers was check to see if they had helecopter grenade locked

Oh man I was the guy that said “Just go to cons” above but I see what you’re saying. Genuine connections take time.

One way I have really had some luck is just messaging friends I haven’t talked to in a while to check in on them. Most don’t reply but sometimes one does. One guy I messaged after not seeing him in 20 years and now we hang out every other week.

Maybe there is no winning strategy, just gotta be persistent.

Go to cons my guy. Join the tournaments, stand in line. People are friendly just aim for a good conversation and be curious about people