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  • No. My point is that the “all men” phenomenon is a symptom of the bigger problem which is that one demographic is being victimized by a subset of a second demographic and that second demographic as a whole recognizes that there is a problem and doesn’t do anything to change that status quo in a meaningful way but won’t acknowledge that their continued lack of action may be the reason they are collectively being blamed.

    Bigger problem -> overgeneralization -> backlash over the over-generalization while maintaining status quo. Wash, rinse, repeat.

    If your point we’re just that “gender bias and the resultant discrimination are bad” you could literally have done that with “Men saying all women are whores/golddiggers are doing the same thing and that is also wrong.”

    Instead, what you did was took an entirely unrelated analogy to a bad conclusion in what I’m sure you think is good faith, ignoring the circumstances and particulars of that situation so that you can try to make a point in the most clumsy way possible and when people give you pushback about it and add clarity of their own views in response it’s “moving goal posts”.

    You made a hamfisted attempt to relate sexual assault and the over-reaction to it to racism and got called out. Let’s not forget what you were initially responding to which wasn’t ops post but a comment at the beginning of the thread which is context for literally just about everything else I’ve said in subsequent comments which plants the goal posts very much where they started out.

    "In the US, of 100 rapes against girls and women reported to the police, 18 will be prosecuted.

    Jeffery Epstein and his cohort abused hundreds of girls, and all anybody cares about is what powerful man might be embarrassed.  Has anyone proposed or suggested anything to protect girls from rich perverts?

    From the founding till 1951, raping your wife was legal in all 48 states. And that protection extended in several states beyond the federal change. Some states even made common-law husbands immune.

    The Christian Bible considers rape to be a property crime. in conservative circles, girls as young as 12 are regularly married off to their rapist."

    The leading cause of death for pregnant people in the US is homicide.

    I think young women considering men to be a threat is pretty rational.

    You are the one who acknowledged that the statistic for African American crime has more nuance but also didn’t not speak at all to the point of using it for the purposes of subjugation (something you conveniently ignored in order to try to validate your point).

    You don’t stop over generalization by ignoring the root cause. Stop playing games with me. The root cause of the African Americans are criminals BS is literally that to continue to subjugate them and feed the prison population the institution has to make the general populace believe they deserve to be there. The general cause of “all men are predators” is literally that the patriarchy condoned sexual abuse so ardently for so long and continues to do so that the only way we even have conversations about sexual assault and abuse is in forums like this on topics like this one where the topic isnt even about sexual abuse but is absolutely about blaming women for overgeneralizing about it.

    You are the one who once again argued poorly that as you spend more time around a bear the likelihood that the bear will attack you will go up, ignoring how that’s exactly what happens to women. The more time they spend around men the more likely they are to be attacked. The men the spend the most time around are very often the ones who end their lives or commit sexual assault against them.

    And if you feel like I’m putting words in your mouth, maybe stop and think about what you mean and just say that. Don’t use analogies about subjects your clearly poorly understand. Don’t try to quote me to refute something I said that you take issue with when you didn’t understand it and your response bears that out. The questions I asked about what you were doing? Rhetorical. They were intended to make you think about the root cause of the situation. And also why more men don’t report sexual assault. You sure took them as an accusation though.


  • Are you encouraging men to come forward with their sexual assault experiences? Are you supportive of them when they are harmed in this way? Do you go out of your way every day of your life to prevent sexual assault or things that lead to sexual assault?

    You’re deliberately using something you know is inflammatory as a poorly thought out analogy. That’s my first problem with what you said.

    The second problem is that you’re deliberately ignoring how trauma (which most women have) affects the ability to communicate, and further affects how we as humans perceive threats. That’s the second problem.

    Third problem is that as it stands women do all of the heavy lifting when trying to prevent sexual assault. All of it. We’re the ones who pushed for rape and sexual assault to have legal definitions under the law. We’re the ones who pushed to criminalize a lot of the stuff that the original commenter for this thread bought up. We’re the ones who created and implemented strategies to lower the chances of sexual assault. In my experience it is women who go out of there way to look out for other women. Do men go out of their way to look out for other men?

    Men have most of the privilege in this situation and do just about nothing to actually help (to prevent sexual assault, or to make sexual assault/worse things unacceptable in society). Now they’re feeling the pressure to do something about it so they don’t get labeled or grouped with “the bad sort” and their response isn’t to blame other men. It’s to blame and shit on women. Their response isn’t to try to help prevent sexual assault or speak up when they see something. It’s to lash out at women for using hyperbole. Which you admit that all human beings do.

    You immediately assumed that because I don’t agree with what you said I must think all men are rapists or sexual assaulters, or that I think that it’s okay to accuse all men of this thing. That’s not the case. But what I’m asking you to acknowledge is that this is a story on the internet with scant details about the interaction from a person who’s got every reason to lie by omission.

    And you’re so stuck on not wanting to be labeled or grouped with bad actors that you are actively blind to what other people are trying to tell you which is that this is a problem created by a patriarchal society that is enabled by that same society and therefore is a problem created by men for men that men actively can help solve but don’t.


  • Nah. Don’t play the word games this way. Women and girls have to operate under the assumption that “all men” specifically because to do otherwise puts them at significant disadvantage and in significant danger. Unknown unknown - I don’t know this man, or those men, but statistics say 92.1 % of sexual offenders are men and 1 in 6 women will experience rape. There’s a sexual assault every 68 seconds.

    So while it may seem unfair to say “all men” because obviously not all men, I have a lot of questions about how op wrote this post.

    All bears aren’t gonna try to eat you. There’s lots of circumstance where that’s not going to happen. But the question is do you assume you are in danger from every bear you run across?

    The thing about the statistics for African American crime is that a lot of them are deliberately misleading and weaponized against that demographic. You acknowledge how bad of an analogy this is but I i don’t really think you understand just how flawed the argument is. Rape and sexual assault are about exerting power and control. The statistic you used is an example of using statistics to exert power and control over a narrative specifically to keep the demographic in question oppressed or subjugated.

    If we’re strictly arguing against weaponizing statistics against a demographic I can understand. But if op is questioning a woman or women being cautious of him because they have a reasonable fear of being assaulted that’s not the same thing.

    Women take extra precautions as a matter of course in their daily every day lives to avoid sexual assault and worse. This is something they do both consciously and unconsciously. And still the most likely person to kill a woman is their male significant other or someone they know. Someone they probably trust.

    There is a possibility that the person who told op this has trauma related to this. Maybe they lack the ability to communicate nuance. Maybe they are just an asshole. Maybe this was a specific attempt to get op specifically to leave them alone. We don’t know the context.


  • This is me quoting my own comments on this article from another post on Lemmy:

    I don’t like the way this article is written. There are concepts that it tries to convey that have major caveats it glosses over. Additionally it posits some ideas for alternatives that aren’t new currencies and doesn’t explain how most of them would work. It also seems to ignore the fact that content creators very often get paid in ad revenue by the very same companies that are exacerbating this problem with their GenAI models, as well as companies that are being hit hard by the lack of actual ad generated revenue due to loss of clickthroughs and impressions.

    That being said it does actually somewhat explain a lot of the problem with the internet being sustained via ad revenue and ads.

    Several of the companies who’s business model is built around ad aggregation are either investing in or developing/have launched GenAI products that are in opposition with their current business model.

    They seem content at the moment to starve other places on the internet of the very ad revenue they rely on to make money. This will hurt them in the long run but they are focused on the short term profits they will make in the meantime and they do not seem concerned about the future so long as they can be seen to be on the cutting edge of the new technology.

    I don’t really know if this will lead to a downturn in creator made content. A lot of paid creators are so invested in that eco system that they’d rather hop from one service to the next forever than give it up and go get a 9-5.

    The pay as you crawl system is going to be difficult to implement, especially when crawlers already ignore the .txt file. The startups are not in a position to necessarily pay to license data and I question if they’d be able to pay as they crawl either. Meaning there will be big conglomerate gate keepers like Meta and Google and MS. The pay as you crawl system also only works if it’s regulated in some way so that normal users and small creators don’t get caught up in being victimized by bots/crawlers ignoring such rules or laws, with those victims unable to have their case taken seriously or heard at all.

    As for determining where the information came from and providing attribution. Most people still aren’t going to click through to those pages. This is in part because a lot of them don’t want to see ads in the first place (for security reasons and because ads are an imposition on their increasingly limited time, energy, and attention). It’s also because they already have the information they need. You don’t care if Wikipedia gets your ad revenue so long as you can prove you were right about Brad Pitt’s height or his first job to your friend you made that bet with at the bar last night.

    They say sources would be compensated. By who? And how? We have already established that people don’t think there’s a lot of value in paying for chatbots. The vast majority of Gen AI LLM users have shown (through polling, and introductory costs that go up in price later) that they aren’t interested in and don’t find value in pay for them. So conglomerates (many of whom run chatbots at a loss) would be on the hook both for paying for their crawlers and for providing such services to their consumers (corporate or not)? That most definitely is not sustainable.

    The other option is licensing but a lot of data has already been crawled and continues to be crawled without licensing or compensation.

    I’m not sure that changing this business model will lead to anything good.

    Edit: There’s also the problem with DDOS attacks for smaller websites that get crawled. Lemmy has seen this first hand. It’s not the intention of the crawlers to overload the servers but there’s so many of them and the number keeps growing. There’s a whole lot of other issues besides the ones in this comment too.


  • I read the article and it conveniently glosses over the fact that this will be a problem in the fairly near future for those who are using AI because the use of AI keeps a person on the page longer but doesn’t generally encourage them to view ads or actually click through to products or services. Those businesses are ad aggregation companies by default for the most part, and they aren’t gonna to survive without clickthroughs, nor can they survive off ad revenue that doesn’t exist because people aren’t looking at the ads or clicking through to the products. The AI summary is the same problem that they already gave themselves once when they were trying to make search results more efficient in like 2018. You’d Google, and they would answer the query without you having to click a link at all. You’d get your answer and close the page.

    Also, once they’ve starved themselves of user created data (as is posited by the article), they won’t have anything to keep feeding these models.




  • You:

    A. sought another third party out to verify your view of the situation (not including the people in this forum).

    B. have stated that you always end up feeling like the jerk in these interactions because they make you feel like you’re the one who did something wrong by “starting an argument with them when they agree with you”.

    C. made a post asking for the input of people who don’t know you, or this other person and don’t have the intimate details of the situation to get our take on what is happening .

    There seems to be an assumption here that gaslighting must be a deliberate act where the person doing it is aware of exactly what they are doing and why. That’s not really how it works though. There’s two parts to gaslighting and they’re pretty simple. The person who is doing it is trying to change the other person’s view of reality and somehow that change results in a payoff of some kind for that person.

    However I am willing to admit that there is the potential for something else to be going on here and several other people have brought up alternative POV’s that may be more relevant to your situation.







  • I find this annoying. I have three different 8bitdo controllers hanging around my house. I have the original 8bitdo sn30 pro, the pro plus, and the pro 2. After I bought the pro 2 they came out with the Xbox variant. The difference between the pro 2 regular and the pro 2 Xbox variant? The additional rear buttons on the Xbox variant work and are mappable in steam os. Where the ones on the original pro 2 are not. Do both of these controllers have the ultimate software? Yes. But unfortunately one of them doesn’t contain the hardware to make those physical buttons work as physically and programbaly different than the other buttons on the controller.

    I can buy this. I could buy the Xbox variant pro 2. But I don’t want to have to keep buying essentially the same controller to get functionality it should have had in the first place.






  • The federal government leaked my PII including my social security number in 2015.

    I’m aware (my mother works in healthcare, specifically with patient PII), of both the laws and regulations involved. But what I’m saying is, this is not going to stop them from excusing their behavior and there’s not enough states to oppose them in the long run.

    This is what happens when we allow idiots who don’t have any critical thinking skills to elect an idiot intent on tearing the system apart to the highest office in the land. Twice.

    There’s laws against this administration firing or laying off GI’s. There’s laws that should have prevented the firing of whole government agencies. There’s laws in place that are supposed to be protecting our information from DOGE. Those laws have been sparingly enforced, and are constantly under threat because the orange idiot had more than one term to stack court appointed judges and legislators.

    Even when this administration isn’t doing that they’re doing so many illegal acts at one time that our justice system couldn’t keep up even without people working against it from the inside. They’re speed running fascism over here.

    Thiel and the rest of the crony bunch are going to continue to develop Palantir to “adhere to the laws and regulations in place” while taking advantage of the fact that AI isn’t really being regulated at all and most of the people holding public office don’t have a good understanding of what it is, let alone what dangers it presents even without PII involved.

    If you think they care about privacy laws, I think I could probably find a bridge to sell you.


  • atrielienz@lemmy.worldtoFuck AI@lemmy.worldDiscussing AI with Children
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    I would argue that this should already have been part of your media literacy “talk” that you were having with children who have access to the Internet.

    1. Generative AI LLM’s spread a lot of misinformation but misinformation was already readily available on the internet before the LLM’s became so prolific.
    2. LLM’s allow for a much faster development and proliferation of slop, but slop was already there on the internet before LLM’s of this caliber existed.
    3. If your children can’t understand that the internet is not just a collection of facts then you are failing as a parent. People (including children) should know that they can’t believe everything they see on the internet, and for various reasons. This is part of teaching critical thinking skills and it should be taught at a young age.

    I recently heard that some countries have media literacy as part of the curriculum in their schools and it makes for an incredibly media literate populace even in the wake of AI LLM’s being shoehorned into everything and all the slop that has become so prevalent.

    You might not have the skills to teach your kid photo or video editing or such, but you have the skills to at least go “assume that the internet is lying to you and verify all sources”.