I had to post three or four warnings to my friend group that said, “The following is not a cry for help, I promise I’m fine” before I posted this.

Worth it.

No, but I have been surviving, and honestly that’s enough for now!

Thanks babe. ♥

I am a fixer by nature and by trade.

I’m big for advocating not to fix your partner, because then you aren’t partners, but I’ve spent so much time so deep in the shit that the other day my boyfriend was saying this really sweet, emotional thing about how I “saved” him, and I had to very carefully censor myself because to me, his problems were just… they didn’t even register. Among other professionals, I’ve called it “cute.” Like to what I’m used to, his problems were the equivalent of “I can’t find the mate to this sock” and I found it in the dryer.

Of course, his feelings are real and valid and justified, and his worst day is still his worst day, so there’s no force on earth that could make me belittle his joy and gratitude but… yeah. Barely even registered that I was “saving” him.

Which says a lot about him, and a lot about me.

Fun fact; I think this is my first comment on Lemmy in like 2 weeks. Ya girl busy. Promise I still love ya. Just trying to save the world and doing full time college which was biting way too much off to chew.

Literally I use my glasses as the example whenever I face an, “it’s not natural!” Argument.

Friend, this is an ADHD community. Not a, “have you tried changing your outlook” community.

I hope this helps! It will keep TERFs out for sure.

I love sex and 9 inches is too much. Sorry bros. You pull out 9 inches on me and I’m gonna hafta pass.

This was my instinct with that submarine fiasco. Calls a man he’s never seen or talked to a pedophile? First thing? Gotta be a reason that word was in his mind.

Same! I would totally chat up that dude!

I get by on never taking my meds on my days off. It works pretty well for me. I’m aware I might be one of the lucky ones.