• morphballganon@lemmynsfw.com
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    7 days ago

    Why are so many commenters so comfortable pushing all responsibility onto the woman? Can you not imagine how draining it would be to have to engage like that with hundreds of milquetoast males every week

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      6 days ago

      Why are so many commenters so comfortable pushing all responsibility onto the woman?

      They are on a platform for communicating. She is communicating poorly.

      Can you not imagine how draining it would be to have to engage like that with hundreds of milquetoast males every week

      She typed 6 words. It would’ve been less work to disengage by saying “not interested, sorry” - 3 words. It would’ve been far less work to just ghost them.

      Males

      Oh boy, what’s the impression we get when a guy calls women “females” when talking about dating? It’s not good, but it does provide more context to your comments.