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Cake day: November 3rd, 2024

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  • Due to my interest in military hardware I watched the live stream by LazerPig, and the parade was absolutely garbage. Sure, they showed the Sherman, but no SPAA or engineering vehicles. They showed the Abrams and the Bradley, but nothing between that and WW2. There was so much objectively cool stuff they could’ve shown off, but it seemed they put no effort in it beyond pleasing the chief cheeto.

    The Russian parade was also a disappointment, but the ones with actual quality hardware managed to be even more disappointing.

    Fascists make everything worse. Even the thing they claim to be good at. Fucking clownshow.




  • I sometimes order stuff off of temu or wish. You know, those situations where “crap quality product” is what you’re actually after.

    But I have a rule of never ordering before a week has passed. If I still need or want the item after a week, the purchase can be justified, but I have to pick an item I already have to get rid of first.

    One piece of crap in means one piece of crap out.

    Things I’ve bought like this: Phone holder for my night stand (a simple one that allowed me to keep my phone in portrait mode. I WFH with my bed as my “office”).
    Maunesium (the kids were curious once I mentioned that metal can burn). Moisture detection stickers (they turned out pretty good, actually. I use them at work all the time).




  • The poor have plenty of empathy, even more so than most. It just takes the back seat when priorities are to simply put food on the table the next day.

    Poverty brain is weird. All mental strength is spent on ensuring one’s own survival. And in this regard, acting on empathy comes with a cost. If not financial, it takes your focus away from your own needs. And those needs are so severe that every ounce of resources, monetary or mental, is spent wrestling against one’s own impending ruin.

    Source: Was poor, now I’m far from it. Focusing on living instead of just survival is a luxury I will never take for granted.








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    No. It’s a perfectly natural reaction.

    Having said that, I think you should get back behind the wheel ASAP.

    • I have two friends, both of whom were in accidents. One of them pressured himself into driving again shortly after to get past the PTSD. The other didn’t. Guess which one never drove again.
    • When I had just gotten my driver’s license I did not feel properly safe or in control either. It’s a habitual thing: The more you drive, the better you get at it, and with time the nervousness and uncertainty fades.

    You don’t NEED to drive again. But I think you should face your fear and try to move past the current trauma. Simply because being able to drive is useful. After than that, if you don’t really need to drive anywhere, just don’t.