• surewhynotlem@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    immaculate

    Least rapey. Most likely to actually want to know her as a person. Someone who likes women.

    Very high standard. Not many meet it.

    Just remember guys: if you don’t want to hang out with them on their favorite shopping trip, or listen to gossip about their work frenemy, or include them on your favorite hobby, then it’s ok to just be single. Not everyone likes women. Find one you actually like spending lots of time with, or just hang out with your bros instead. All are good options.

    What you don’t want to do is pretend you’re having a good time, then get married and be miserable for the rest of your life because you don’t actually like them. That’s boomer shit.

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      There are also many girls who do not care about shopping trips, gossip, work drama, and have hobbies of their own that you can be included in. Women are not intrinsically much different from men. Social conditioning is more than powerful enough to override whatever slight biological inclinations there may be. If you date normies, sure you’ll get people who fit the gender norms of the culture you’re dating in. Normies in another country will behave differently. I don’t think it’s good or right to have a mentality of “well if I don’t like hearing about makeup and dresses I guess speaking to women just isn’t for me”.

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      Least rapey. Most likely to actually want to know her as a person. Someone who likes women. Very high standard. Not many meet it.

      Oh yeah, you better don’t go advising shit after that intro next time.

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          3 days ago

          Wait, so you were serious about the rest of the quote? That makes it even more misandrist.

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            Many men don’t like women as people. That’s not even a controversial thing to say.

            Just look how popular the “men and women can’t be friends” view is.

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              Yes, and that’s a massive issue, but that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t be concerned about misandria. No tolerance for misoginy and no tolerance for misandria, simple as