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    This exchange is clearly not the beginning of the conversation. Previous messages have been excluded from the snip on purpose.

    Bruh it’s because it’s a meme. It’s not trying to “AITA” or otherwise seek affirmation for their actions. No Chloes were harmed in the making of this meme.

    The replies on the left are exactly how someone unimpressed behaves.

    Or someone with no social skills.

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      Couldn’t possibly be that she’s got better uses of her energy than to engage all the pushy guys that text her all the time amirite

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        If said guy is asking about what she does for work, that means they don’t know each other very well.

        Just tell them you’re not interested or ghost them if you don’t want to engage? They’re most likely not in your personal life and are just on a dating app if they don’t even know what you do.

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          Why are so many commenters so comfortable pushing all responsibility onto the woman? Can you not imagine how draining it would be to have to engage like that with hundreds of milquetoast males every week

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            Why are so many commenters so comfortable pushing all responsibility onto the woman?

            They are on a platform for communicating. She is communicating poorly.

            Can you not imagine how draining it would be to have to engage like that with hundreds of milquetoast males every week

            She typed 6 words. It would’ve been less work to disengage by saying “not interested, sorry” - 3 words. It would’ve been far less work to just ghost them.

            Males

            Oh boy, what’s the impression we get when a guy calls women “females” when talking about dating? It’s not good, but it does provide more context to your comments.